A Journey Of Healing and Connection

Hi, we are

Hiubert & Xio

Life Coaches

This is our Story

 For years, we were deeply involved in ministry—pastoring, leading, traveling, and giving our all to serve others. From the outside, it looked like everything was working. We had what many in Christian circles would call “success”—influence, responsibility, fruit.

But beneath the surface, something was missing.

I (Xio) was emotionally exhausted, spiritually burned out, and silently carrying the weight of performance, fear, and pressure to “get it right.”
Hiubert had spent years preaching the gospel, yet hadn’t truly grasped the fullness of it for himself. He didn’t realize how emotionally disconnected he was—from his own heart, and from me.

And as a couple?
We didn’t know how far apart we’d grown until we finally slowed down enough to feel it.

Eventually, we had to make a decision.
We chose to walk away from it all.
Not because it was easy. Not because we had a Plan B.
But because we knew staying would cost us more than leaving ever would.

Leaving a high-control, spiritually abusive church forced us to stop pretending and start asking the hard questions:
Who is God, really?
What do I do with all these emotions?
How did we end up so disconnected—even while doing “everything right”?

That season stripped us down—and it became the start of something new.

We began to see what we’d been missing for years:
The real gospel. Emotional honesty. Grace.
Connection with God that didn’t depend on performance.
And connection with each other that was built on truth, not pressure.

Everything changed.
The way we live.
The way we love.
The way we lead.

Today, we’re certified coaches trained in Connection Codes, and we walk with Christian men, women, and couples through emotional and spiritual healing, honest communication, and deep relational connection.

We don’t have a formula.
But we do have real tools.
And we know what it’s like to feel lost, confused, numb, or stuck—because we’ve been there.

If you're longing for something real...
If you're tired of feeling distant from God or your spouse…
If you know the right answers but still feel disconnected—
There’s hope.

You don’t have to stay where you are.
And you don’t have to walk through it alone.

"But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord..."- Philippians 3:7-8